My Condolences to the Abernathy/Pihl family: Losing a loved one is never easy and my heart goes out to you. Just reading about her, she was such a giving person who will be truly missed. The pain is so real but the God of comfort helped me through that terrible pain when our daughter died and now when my precious husband of 50 years fell asleep in death due to pancreatic cancer. God doesn’t leave us without hope. Notice these few Scriptures of comfort: Revelation 21:4 (no more sadness or death) Isaiah 33:24 (no more sickness) John 5:28, 29 (the Resurrection) Psalms 37:11 (where we will see our loved one) Psalms 37:29 (for how long). When you feel up to reading these few Scriptures, may they be comforting to you as well.