Guanci Ralph P. Jr. of Carlisle, formerly of Arlington. Oct. 3, 2009. Beloved husband of Pamela (Bell). Loving father of Heather Elizabeth Mills of Boston. Step father of Tara Thomas and her husband Eric of Portsmouth RI. Devoted grandfather of Cameron and Tori Thomas. Brother of John and his wife Maureen of Arlington, Mary of Nashua, Peter and his wife Janet of Bedford, Elizabeth of Arlington, and Joseph and his wife Ann of Melrose. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. A funeral mass will be celebrated at St. Irene's Church in Carlisle on Wednesday at 10 am. Burial in Mount Pleasant Cemetery in Arlington, Arrangements by Keefe Funeral Home in Arlington.